ALPHA ACADEMY: 5 Steps To Get Your Ex Back

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My step-by-step plan will help you get your ex back in your life and reinvent your relationship!

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Missing your ex? No two broken hearts are the same...

And yet this Alpha Academy course will work to restore the balance of power, erase past drama, and reinvent your relationship no matter what the circumstances!

I'll tell you how to flip the script on...

A long term boyfriend suddenly “needs space” or to “find himself”

You feel helpless to resist a fuckboy and want to him to date you for real

You met a great guy but blew it and just want to start over

You realize an ex from your past could be The One and want another chance

You don’t know how to come back from a super dramatic episode or break up

It’s time to take back your power

The helplessness and confusion of a broken heart is so unbearable. Should you text? Call his mom? Sleep with his friend?? I get it. And with my new Alpha Academy course, you won’t have to spend hours obsessing over what to say or post or do.

I’ll tell you PRECISELY how to handle the early stages of a breakup—like what to text, what to post, which friends to stay in contact with—and how to form a plan to get him back using shadow selves, attachment styles, reverse psychology, worksheets and so much more.

I’ve done all the work for you, all you have to do is follow my steps and sleep easy knowing help has arrived...and soon, you ex will too!

Trust me I have been through this!

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Chat with Shallon 1-on-1

Head to the Membership section to get started!

Chat with Shallon 1-on-1

Head to the Membership section to get started!

Chat with Shallon 1-on-1

Head to the Membership section to get started!

It’s Time To Take Your Power Back!

The helplessness and confusion of a broken heart is so unbearable. Should you text? Call his mom? Sleep with his friend?? I get it. And with my new Alpha Academy course, you won’t have to spend hours obsessing over what to say or post or do.

I’ll tell you PRECISELY how to handle the early stages of a breakup—like what to text, what to post, which friends to stay in contact with—and how to form a plan to get him back using shadow selves, attachment styles, reverse psychology, worksheets and so much more.

I’ve done all the work for you, all you have to do is follow my steps and sleep easy knowing help has arrived...and soon, you ex will too!

Trust me I have been through this!

Chat with Shallon 1-on-1

Head to the Course section to Enroll Now!

Chat with Shallon 1-on-1

Head to the Course section to Enroll Now!

Chat with Shallon 1-on-1

Head to the Course section to Enroll Now!

Chat with Shallon 1-on-1

Head to the Course section to Enroll Now!

Meet Your Teacher: YouTube’s Queen of the Girls!

Shallon Lester

Hi bestie I’m Shallon! I’m an author, sexpert, influencer and all around weapon of feminine wiles. I specialize in unlocking your inner alpha female and making you a girl on top in the boardroom AND the bedroom.

If you’re here, congratulations: it means you’re ready to level up and be the irresistible women you were created to be. Let’s get started!

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The Course

Get Him Back: Your 5-Step Manipulation Masterplan

Stop crying and start strategizing. I’ll show you how to flip the script and get the love and respect you deserve.

5 video lessons

7 Worksheets

10 Manipulation Strategies for Any Scenario

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The Ice Queen

The Autopsy

The Police Sketch

The Build-A-Bitch

The New Beginning

Plus downloads, worksheets, bonus videos and more!

Learn how to be an Alpha Female!

Get the Course: If you’re longing to have a certain guy back in your life, I’ll draw upon history, science, The Art of Seduction and so much more to teach you how to subtly manipulate a man so that he can’t resist you.

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Testimonials: Hear what real girls are saying!

Okay so he was never exactly my boyfriend. He was a guy I started talking to in January 2020. I had no game, kind of went with his flow, made every mistake in the book, and ended up in a friends with a benefits situation that I didn't want. I had strong feelings for him. He didn't want a relationship. I begged for him to give me a chance. It was probably the most embarrassing moment of my life.

This cycle kept happening on/off for two years, until Shallon coached me through re-branding and re-introducing myself to him. It took some time, but we are now actually together. We have been working through the past. It hasn't been easy, but I got what I ultimately wanted. I realise now that you have to teach people how to treat you.

Thank you Shallon for creating this five-step formula. It really works.

— Anonymous

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